Welcome to She Makes The Rules!
This website is completely owned and run by real women, for men and women interested in changing the dynamics in their relationships to Female-Led. Please take the time to read the information below on this page before registering on our website. Not only is it interesting and informative, but we aren't interested in having you here if you are looking for something different than what we provide. Taking the time to read below can save us both our valuable time.
Questions for Women - Are you in the right place?
If you can answer any of these questions with a 'yes', then you are in the right place!
- Are you making decisions for your family? Or at work?
- Are you the one people turn to in a crisis?
- Are you the 'rock' your family depends on?
- Are you the one who makes the plans for your family?
- At work are you the woman with all the answers?
- Has your boyfriend/husband approached you with the idea of taking more control? (And maybe you even think he's crazy, but you're willing to at least look into it?)
- Has anyone ever referred to you as a 'Dominant Woman' or 'Bossy'?
- Do you plan events for your friends and family?
If you have any of the above traits, you are a strong woman. It doesn't make us less feminine to acknowledge that we are good at running things, or that we LIKE it when people do what we've asked of them. You don't have to be good at running everything to be a strong woman.
Unfortunately, in the online world, strong women are also called 'Female Dominants, FemDom's (FemDomme) and/or Controlling Women'. We don't particularly like these terms, but they are prevalent in the information available. Technically we do qualify as FemDomme's, but we just don't like the terminology, so we're setting about changing it.
As a woman, you may not think these terms (strong, powerful or dominant woman) identify you, but if you think about your daily life and relationships, you will probably start to see a pattern. You're the one making an awful lot of decisions! Some strong women are true leaders and are great in business management. Others don't like the main leadership role, but are great support staff and see that daily business and life within their realm (family/home) runs smoothly. And you may not like being bossy, but by golly, you'll step up and take care of things if no one else is doing so. After all, we are the champions of taking care of others.
Strong women are everywhere and we should celebrate that we're living in a time where women are finally coming into their own in almost every way! When it comes to relationships, some of us are better at leading. Not necessarily in every area of the relationship, but certainly in the places we can make a difference. I think the phrase that we like to say most often describes it very well, and that is "We like a vote-and-a-half!" Although some of us like to make the majority of the decisions as well. We are all kinds of women! We just have a storng backbone.
Being 'in charge' doesn't mean that we have to do all of the work either, or always be "The Boss". Think of how often you want your Sweetie to simply do the dinner dishes. If you choose to, you can have the power to say 'Do it" and he'll respond. Like all relationships it takes time to work out the details and what the two of you find to work and be fun.
Come and join us for more information, or just to simply find out why we're so excited about our relationships! We ARE just like you and we've probably had the same considerations, thoughts and feelings that you have! Just give us a chance.
If you don't like our information and discussions, you certainly are not required to hang around. We'll remove your User ID at your request, and gladly accept your feedback as well.
Questions for Men
A lot of men who are drawn to strong women use the term 'submissive' to describe themselves as being willing to submit to the wishes of strong or dominant women. Then other men are highly offended by the idea that they are less than a "Man's Man" and just like to please their partner. Or you may be drawn to images of women dominating men sexually, or even the overall thought of FemDomme's. How do you know if you're in the right place at She Makes The Rules? Here are some questions to ask yourself:
- Are you happy when you please the woman you love?
- Do you like it when a strong woman expects certain behaviors from you?
- Does it feel good when you're taking care of others you care for?
- Do you want to take a mental break from being in charge when you are at home?
- Is it easier when a woman simply TELLS you what she really wants you to do? (No more guessing!)
- Do you simply like being around women who are confident?
- Does the idea of being dominated just thrill you to your toes?
If any of these questions strike a chord within you, then yes, you very well could be in the right place, but please keep reading. Some of you will have come here because of your fantasies. Or you’ve seen those websites with the leather wielding women in 5" spike heels walking on some other lucky fella. We must tell you that if you are looking for that woman, you won't find her here. The men who come here looking only to see sexy pics or fulfill their fantasies with online domination, will NOT find it here! If that's you, please go elsewhere!
She Makes The Rules is a website OWNED and RUN by women, some of whom can be plenty kinky when the mood is upon them. In our daily lives we are professionals who have families and obligations. Generally speaking, we're not all that fond of wearing 5" spike heels after a long day at the office. We ARE the REAL women who live Female Led Relationships (FLRs) on a daily basis. We are NOT the women dressed in tight leathers who exist to make your fantasies come true (oh, and don't forget to pay your fee when you leave the studio) kind of women.
If you want real women who have come to understand their dominant natures, AND you are willing to obey our rules of behavior in the forums (and in contacting women) then this IS the place for you! Seriously. Pay attention here. If you are going to send one liner emails to all the women about your erection, we don't want you here. If you want to harass and play mind games, we're not interested.
We ARE interested in showing you how to attract and keep a true 'normal' every day 'Dominant Woman'. Or if you're already partnered, we're happy to explain to you how REAL women think and react in these situations. And we LOVE it when your partner comes with you and we can answer her questions too! This is a REAL place for Female Led Relationships! Or Wife Led Relationship, or even Woman Led, FemDomme... whatever your terminology is, it covers the same area. We ARE the dominant women you dream of.
Come on in and join our forums. If you like us, we do ask that you assist in our costs of running this website by donating. (No money goes into our pockets! It's all for improvements of the website and hosting packages.)
What We Are and What We Are Not!
This is a site for relationships, those in them or those who are looking for one. It is owned and run by real WOMEN with real lives. We are exactly who we say we are!
- This is not a group for fantasy.
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- If you are expecting to see a lot of explicit videos or pictures, this is not the site for you.
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- We do not allow professional or financial dominatrix’s on our site (those women who tell you that you must send them money because they are superior.)
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- We believe that all women and men have strengths, and that our roles in life and relationships should not be decided based solely upon gender.
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- We do NOT believe in the supremacy of all women over men, or the elimination of all male rights. And this is NOT the place to discuss it!
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- We DO think that for some people, the role of the woman as a strong partner is the right thing for them, and we encourage everyone to see if a Female Led Relationship might work for them.
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- We DO review every single picture and if we don't approve, it doesn't get used (See the rules on pictures and posting)
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This website is completely free to join. We do ask that you donate if you find the site valuable to you. We utilize those funds towards growing and maintaining the website, not to line our pockets. (Believe me, we're poor after putting all this together and all the associated costs!) This is our labor of love (and service) to our communities. We hope you'll love it as much as we do! (You must be of legal age to view our website and forums.)
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